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I can pay for any surgery, but I need advice on what to do

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28 years old. For the last years I was completely focused on accumulating knowledge and making money as a cybersecurity specialist and a webhosting business consultant in a low-cost, simple life and didn’t care about appearance as I barely had time to invest into it, now I have enough money to perform any surgical procedure I “need” to improve my aesthetics, but I don’t know much about the terminology to even discuss this with a surgeon on what I can and want to improve. I’m here to ask for critiques and suggestions on what to do to improve my aesthetics to the maximum allowed by my genetics. I know there are knowledgeable people here that can provide great insights.

I know there’s lots of things that can be improved on my face, but I don’t know how to describe in order to explain in proper terms to the surgeon and I’d like to make sure to ask for the right things, because the results can vary based on the expectations I talk about with the surgeon.

I've been talking with a oral and maxillofacial surgeon already and I'm pretty sure we will do orthognatic surgery, and since this is a complex one and ideally is done once in a lifetime, I'd like to use this opportunity to make as many modifications as needed/possible on this same surgery so that I don't have to go through it again.

Also, the reason I want to do this is partly because of some high-school trauma, but mostly because I don’t like what I see in the mirror aesthetically wise, I don’t feel comfortable in my own skin, I feel inferior as if I was living handicapped, with a disadvantage compared to pretty people. Even though I have money and respect from my peers, I still feel bad close to really pretty people.

Images album here: https://imgur.com/a/Gw0Fg0U

It's 2 GIFs, then the first 9 images are taken from 6 feet away (following good picture-taking guidelines for accurate rating), others are selfie (1, 2 feet away). I can provide more pictures from more angles if necessary. I will soon do exams such as x-rays and can provide them too.

Posted : 12/12/2022 12:01 am
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